
Help! I am addicted to interior design and creating the perfect family home.
Although we have recently purchased our new build home we don’t plan on staying here for too long. The plan is to put it back on the market ASAP and therefore I am already looking for building inspiration. We bought this house out of necessity as we saw it as our way of getting onto the Jersey property market. However, it is far from our dream home. We would love a traditional Jersey granite house but obviously this comes at a price *sigh*. As a result we have accepted that our next house will be a house that requires work to make it perfect. However, thanks to the Building Inspiration website by Velux and my love for interior design magazines, this isn’t something we are scared of. In fact we are rather excited by the prospect as we will be able to create our perfect family home from scratch. It also helps that Mr C is structural engineer with a love for knocking out chimneys and knocking down walls.

Source - Building Inspiration by Velux
I have started scouring estate agent windows just in case the perfect house is out there already, (ssh, don’t tell Mr C). Ideally, we would like a 4 bedroom house but in our budget we are going to have to settle for three. Therefore, we are looking at houses with the potential to extend up into the loft. I would love a big loft bedroom, with room for a walk in closet and a nook for a study. I don’t ask for much do I? In preparation I have been looking at the Building Inspiration website.

Source - Building Inspiration by Velux
Our current house is very light deprived. I am someone who likes to have lots of light and space. Building Inspiration shows how you can create light, bright and airy rooms with an extension. This diagram clearly demonstrates that getting plenty of light into your room is key for creating a spacious feel.

Source - Building Inspiration by Velux
This explains why our house can feel small, despite the room dimensions being generous. The Velux website is really clear and has lots of fantastic articles from experts including Piers Taylor. Planning your dream home can seem really daunting which is why this website is great. It has all of the information you could possibly need including what planning regulations you might need, how to budget and finally my favourite bit, decor ideas.
My top tips for creating your dream family home
- Research. Use websites like building inspiration, read magazines like Real Homes and use interior design blogs for inspiration.
- Note. Make a note of all your ideas. Jot them down, no matter how far-fetched they seem, you can worry about that later.
- Create a mood board for your perfect house. You could do this on pinterest. I am always starting mood boards for rooms I want to make over.
- Make a list in rank order of what your dream house has to have. Remember to take into account the needs of your family.
- Budget. Be realistic, have a contingency fund but stick to the budget. Now go back to your notes and list, are there any ideas that are too expensive. Anything that you can lose from your list? Have your priorities changed?
Learning from our mistakes
Our first ever house was a complete wreck. It was two a up two down end of terrace. With walls and ceilings covered in woodchip and carpets so bright and swirling that it gave you a migraine just walking on them. We had both just finished university and therefore money was TIGHT! I think it was fair to say we were not prepared. We stripped back the carpets to expose the lovely wooden floorboards, to find we had holes in our floors. So we then strategically moved furniture to hide them, you could still feel a draught though! We had a ceiling that was coming down after I had demanded that we strip the wallpaper off it. We were left with a very fragile ceiling that became even more precarious after a particular vigorous work out session with Davina. It did give me the perfect excuse not to exercise for a couple of years. Then there was the leaky boiler and bath. I ended up keeping a vase of flowers under the boiler and I wasn’t allowed to have a bath. Instead we had very speedy showers. Looking back we were so naive. We didn’t plan and we didn’t budget and as a result the house became a money pit. However, we have learnt from past experiences and we are now prepared for our next project. From experience I believe that the key really is preparation. Spend the time researching. Don’t rush into the job but take your time and if at all possible enjoy the process because you are creating your dream house and that should be fun.
Help in designing your new dream home
- If you are looking for websites for help and ideas check out Building Inspiration by Velux. Wiki also has some good tips.
- If you are looking for good magazines for interior design ideas then check out Ideal Homes and Real Homes
- If you are looking for blogs with interior deco inspiration then check out Abigail Ahern and Apartment Therapy
- Finally, Pinterest is a great way of finding ideas. You can see my boards here
What would your dream home look like? Do you have tips for creating your dream home?
*please note this post was sponsored but all words are my own*










I was so excited by your post, I too am in love with interior design. I write a post each Wednesday about it. We are building right now and should be in soon. We did build our dream home 5 years ago but with life demands we have decided to leave our country life for the suburbs. We are downsizing on size but not on style and I just love reading design posts and magazines. Good luck with your dream. #bigpinklink
Oh wow! Well done on building your dream home. Exciting times ahead for you then with your plans to downsize! I hope the move from the country goes ok 🙂 x
Light, space, white and clean lines with splashes of highlight colur as you show here is what I go for too. Keep your drem home alive. #MarvMondays
Thanks! I will keep dreaming and then hopefully one day we will achieve it 🙂 x
I love a project and your ideas sound like a big one! 😉 I made a scrapbook with swatches and Ideal Home magazine cut outs when we first moved and we have completed about half of it, but have now decided that we need a detached house for our forever home. One that has a huge garden, lots of light and space, door opening onto our garden and an ultra modern kitchen… hmmm… maybe I am a dreamer too! Good luck with the searching #bigpinklink
Oh I like the sound of your dream home. That sounds amazing! I would love a big garden :- )
It’s so difficult, isn’t it? Our current house isn’t a forever home and though I try to make it our own, it’s never really felt like the one for me! It also lacks light, which sucks and as we had to rush-decorate when we moved in, I now hate it all yet we can’t afford to renovate, sucks!! Hope all goes well for you all! Thanks for linking to #MarvMondays! Kaye xo
Yes, I think the lack of light is our biggest issue and it means that I am never happy with how a room looks. Also as a blogger it makes taking photos a nightmare! 🙂
oo so nice to see one of your posts again! beautiful images - that full length velux and that stunning light - heaven - please let me come and help - I just adore interior design! and good luck with the build and projects - nice simple life then?! #bigpinklink
haha, yes I am not known for taking the easy route, ever! Good job I like to keep busy 🙂 xx
Oooh I do love a good grand designs project! We have done it twice now, (my hubs is a builder), and I’ve loved *the results of* both of them!! The stressful middle bit could have been skipped but we got here in the end. It means we can have it all how we want it and we’ve definitely put our stamp on things. Thanks for linking up with us again! #bigpinklink
Oh wowzers you are an expert then and I now have complete envy. If I ever find the right house I will be asking you for lots of tips! 🙂 x
Oh good luck, with the build and well finding the right project house too. You’re very brave, I think I’d be too scared to do that, but it would be totally worth it. I hope we get to see posts about the big build when the time comes xx #marvmondays
Thanks. We are going to take our time and enjoy the process and not rush into it. Need to find the right sort of house first!
I read this post at the PERFECT time! I’m gathering all the research, inspiration, and information for building our new forever home! Land positioning, light, flow…there is so much to think about! Thanks for sharing your sources and inspiration. #bigpinklink
Oh I am glad you found it useful! I hope your build goes ok 🙂
This project sounds like a big one- but sounds amazing! To be sorting your dream home is the dream - and you can never go wrong with lots of light. Gald to have found you and your lovely blog via #HomeEtc. Really inspiring and interesting post
Oh thank you for you really lovely comment 🙂 Yes, we have a long way to go. We need to find the perfect project house first!
I could look at interiors magazines all day. They are the ones I root out when at the dentist or doctor. I can’t stand a gossip magazine. Best of luck with the house hunt. Renovating a old house can be exhausting but it is so rewarding on you finsih each step of it.
Thank you. There is nothing better than an interiors magazine for making us dream! 🙂
Haha, yes I am very lucky to be married to a structural engineer. He is also very good at putting bunk beds together which came in handy this weekend!
Hahaha!! This sounds like a support group meeting doesn’t it? Hi my name is Caro and I’m addicted to interior design!!! Ha! 🙂 Glad I’m not the only one. My best friend is looking for a new house at the moment and I spent last Sunday afternoon redoing the floorplan of one of the ones she’s interested in!! And funnily enough it DID involve knocking two rooms into one and getting rid of the chimney stack!!! Would Mr C come to mainland by any chance — we could do with a structural engineer!! 😉
Oops — should have said — thanks so much for linking up to #HomeEtc 😉
Mr C loves knocking a chimney out! He did it in our first house in our kitchen, so I could fit a lovely range cooker in. I loved that range cooker, the rest of the house was falling down but at least I had my lovely cooker 🙂 I will send Mr C over 😉
Great tips! I am also obsessed with homes & interiors and love seeing other people’s ideas and creations 🙂 Great tips and good luck achieving your dream home. Thanks for linking up - Jess xx
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Thanks! One day we will have that dream home…. 🙂